Mother's of 3 back to school and work? You got this!
What happens when mom go's back to work ?
The roof will fall, the kids will escape, it is impossible , the ship will sink !
The stress of how I might manage to raise 3 kids with my husband is a mouth full and will be reality for the next couple of years.
Listen... The kids will be fine. You will take your place in your active role. The house will rise as you accomplish one goal at a time. The house will not sink , It will rise.
The power of taking action!
The struggle of making this decision was so difficult. I have been raising my children at home comfortably while my husband worked. As parents we know every decision we make affects the house hold.
I wanted to stay home as much as I could , but I know that I must venture into my career.
The standstill everything takes when you capture the moments of staying at home , you get lost in that gaze of happiness. When a change shakes your nest, you're ready to spread those wings and take your babies with you.
The importance of education is among us .
Today is the day to change tomorrow .
Whatever the struggle is that our mom brains are saying.
The Negative thoughts
I know I can't not be the only one that feels guilt.
The mom guilt hits the pit of my stomach. Although we can predict the benefits of going back to work it is hard to leave when you know everything about your child. They do not have to speak for you to understand and you have difficulty wrapping your head on how you will train so much of your children needs and wants in so little time to someone else when you are still trying to perfect it yourself. The truth is there will never be another mother like you . You are not leaving them as a mother you are using your tools to help your growing family for more fun adventures, I would love to feel happy to be able to benefit from all the amazing programs that are being offered .
I cannot sit here and tell you the mom guilt goes away , but I can tell you the mom guilt is normal. I go through this all time, I struggle to find the balance with in myself. All my focus is on my children and husband, I want to pour my happiness on them, I want them to feel the love I give , but minds are very tricky.
" Sometimes your mind plays tricks on you. It can tell you you're no good, that it's all hopeless.But Remember this, you are loved, and important, and bring to this world things no one else can. So hold on." Quoted by Charlie Mackesy.
The light at the end of the tunnel
The mix emotions your feeling will tame. You will find yourself again, the identity you hold with the highest title "MOM". There's no higher self then a loving mother who cares for the children and that's what your doing. Even those thoughts you are having , how will I do this ? How can I make this adjustment?
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I am a great, what I do moves mountains , the impact I make are waves , I carry every decision I make to achieve a successful outcome. I love my family and the best title I carry is being your mother.
Your a mother always no one will ever take that away. Carry out your journey with your children , take that class, go for coffee alone ,Do not let that fear control you.
Explore!
Push your feet off the ground and RUN.
Ending this with one more QUOTE
"One of our greatest freedoms is how we react to things
You bring to this world things no one else can including your children
You are loved!" by Charlie Mackesy.
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